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MEET VICTORIA AMOR

Why I Teach This

The Method Behind My Work

The Method Behind My Work

I’m Victoria Amor.

I used to feel like a powerhouse… until I liked a man.

Then I’d overthink my looks, reread texts, ignore red flags, and hand my heart to men based on a feeling.

That’s how you end up in situationships and mixed signals with men who never fully choose you.

Everything changed when I stopped dating from chemistry and started d

I’m Victoria Amor.

I used to feel like a powerhouse… until I liked a man.

Then I’d overthink my looks, reread texts, ignore red flags, and hand my heart to men based on a feeling.

That’s how you end up in situationships and mixed signals with men who never fully choose you.

Everything changed when I stopped dating from chemistry and started dating from a vision.

I stopped waiting for a “good man” to show up… and I learned the skills to create secure love on purpose.

I didn’t change cities.

I didn’t change dating pools.

I changed how I showed up.

I went from situationships and mixed signals to commitment and consistency.

Not because I got luckier.

Because I learned how to create secure relationships in real life.

Now I teach women how to stop shrinking in love and start leading their dating lives with confidence, clarity, and self-trust.

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The Method Behind My Work

The Method Behind My Work

The Method Behind My Work

  • Certified Love + Relationship Coach (VITA with Layla Martin)


  • Conscious Dating certified (VITA)


  • Trained in real-world relationship skills + conflict repair (Laurie Handlers)


  • 5x International School of Temple Arts grad (deep inner work: boundaries, intimacy, consent, self-expression)


  • Emotional  Freedom Therapy certified (Gala Darling)


  • Integrated

  • Certified Love + Relationship Coach (VITA with Layla Martin)


  • Conscious Dating certified (VITA)


  • Trained in real-world relationship skills + conflict repair (Laurie Handlers)


  • 5x International School of Temple Arts grad (deep inner work: boundaries, intimacy, consent, self-expression)


  • Emotional  Freedom Therapy certified (Gala Darling)


  • Integrated Attachment Theory certification in progress (Thais Gibson) | 04/2026

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The Human Stuff

The Method Behind My Work

The Human Stuff

  • I’ve been skydiving twice . . .and yes, I’d absolutely do it again


  • I got married with helicopters flying the wedding party in


  • We said “I do” on a plateau in Valley of Fire State Park, filmed on SYTTD


  • Yoga is my breakfast. . .and my healthiest addiction


  • Topless on a beach is my natural habitat


  • Spicy food always wins


  • Music raised me (Madonna, Che

  • I’ve been skydiving twice . . .and yes, I’d absolutely do it again


  • I got married with helicopters flying the wedding party in


  • We said “I do” on a plateau in Valley of Fire State Park, filmed on SYTTD


  • Yoga is my breakfast. . .and my healthiest addiction


  • Topless on a beach is my natural habitat


  • Spicy food always wins


  • Music raised me (Madonna, Cher, Alanis, Pink, Taylor Swift, Emeline)


  • Cacao ceremonies + ecstatic dance are how I surrender spiritually

What Women Are Saying

MARY BETH D.

LIBBY HOFFMAN

LIBBY HOFFMAN

 One session of courses with you and I weeded out what was wrong for me and found the man of my dreams I’ve never been in a relationship like this before. I’ve finally found someone that is in total alignment with all my wants and desires and is worthy of how good I can be to him. I feel better about everything about my life than I have in years. You’re the best!  

LIBBY HOFFMAN

LIBBY HOFFMAN

LIBBY HOFFMAN

 Working with Victoria helped me reclaim what it means to be a 'woman' . I learned how to set my own limits, especially where it pertains to men and how I am treated by them. I completely shifted my relationship to my sexuality, unpacking a storehouse of judgements and pain which allowed me to access joy, passion, and LOVE while expressing it in a way I desire.  

JEANIE REILLY

LIBBY HOFFMAN

JEANIE REILLY

 My breakthrough moment was letting go of judgment and learning how to calm myself down through difficult situations. Now, I'm more at peace. I feel stronger and more confident.I feel like the most valuable and impactful part of the coaching program was learning how to let go of the pain I was holding. Victoria made me feel supported, understood and confident I can face the challenges in my relationships.  

AMBER KAY

JENICA SCHEVENE

JEANIE REILLY

  

Before I started working with Victoria, I was having a really hard time communicating with my husband and it was leading to a lot of frustration. Since completing the program, I feel so much clarity in how to move forward, my boundaries are MUCH stronger, and my connection with my husband is even stronger which is super sexy! I absolutely recommend working with Victoria. You will experience incredible shifts and massive upgrades.  

PHOEBE KEMI

JENICA SCHEVENE

JENICA SCHEVENE

  When I began working with Victoria, I felt indecisive and hesitant making certain decisions, and now I feel certain I am showing up to life more in alignment with my truth. I was most impacted by the sense of calm I learned how to connect with and the understanding and support I felt. She helped me to not only connect with my deeper self, but to have a better understanding of myself as well.  

JENICA SCHEVENE

JENICA SCHEVENE

JENICA SCHEVENE

 My work with Victoria was one of the most effective sessions I’ve had, and it made a huge and immediate impact on my relationship. She created a safe and fun environment that was focused on results. I am so grateful to have been able to work with her.  

Frequently Asked Questions

Still have questions?  Email me @ SecureLove@ToriAmor.com and let's chat

You can reschedule with 24 hours’ notice. This is private coaching, so we’ll keep your momentum and protect the container..


  • Weekly session: 60–90 minutes
  • Daily practice: 15–30 minutes
    Most of the work is awareness inside the life you’re already living, plus new ways to process, internalize, and respond so you start getting a new result from real life.


You get voice note access to me for real-time support.

This is for the moments that usually derail you, like:

  • post-date spirals
  • ghosting
  • mixed signals
  • and yes, even a quick reset from the bathroom on a date

Support is available 24/7 within reason. I sleep, I live my life, but during waking hours I typically respond quickly. The goal is to help you stabilize fast and practice the skill in the moment, not five days later when the spiral has already run the show.


No. This is skill-based coaching focused on results.

And: we do go deep. We work on heartbreak healing and rewiring attachment patterns that were formed in childhood, because those patterns affect who you choose, what you tolerate, and how you respond in dating. The difference is we’re not just talking about it, we’re turning it into real-life change you can apply immediately.


It works to the level you do the work.

You go 20% in, you get a 20% result.

You show up, apply, and let me coach you in the moments you’d normally spiral, shrink, or over-function, and your results compound fast.


You can still get a huge shift: emotional stability, confidence, self-trust, and the skills to create secure love on purpose.

And the more you date, the faster you’ll spot patterns and meet your match. One of my clients met her partner after 4 sessions because she was actively dating and implementing.


Date Like a Queen is a high-touch container, so I don’t do blanket refunds.

That said, I don’t believe in trapping clients. If after 4 sessions / 4 weeks you feel it’s not the right fit, you can request to end the container and receive a partial refund for any unused sessions.

Sessions already used are non-refundable. All requests must be made in writing.


If you’re genuinely aligned and the timing feels right, but the standard payment options don’t work for you, you’re welcome to email and request a custom payment arrangement.

I’m open to creating special arrangements on a case-by-case basis. All requests are considered thoughtfully.


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